Show Threads Show Posts. Go to Page Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. So, I was reading a thread on another forum. Person A suspected her BF of cheating. Talked to him about it, he denied it, but she still couldn't shake her suspicion. She ultimately created a fake profile on a dating site she suspected he visited, and caught him. When she posted on a forum for advice, she got slammed for "being manipulative, dishonest, setting him up", etc.
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This isn't the first time I've seen a spouse who did such actions, get slammed. I'm just curious: what's so wrong with the behavior of the suspicious spouse? True, it IS going behind the spouse's back, but sometimes when you suspect wrongdoing, spying might be the only way to uncover the truth. Let's play devil's advocate: a single mother suspects her nanny of harming her child. After asking the nanny if everything is OK, and getting an "all is well. Upon review of the tapes, discovers that the nanny has been verbally abusive to the child, and spanking the child. Now, I'm pretty sure that no-one in their right mind, would slam a mother for going behind her nanny's back and placing hidden cameras in her home when she suspects harm to her child.Yet, a person who goes behind the backs of a spouse, to uncover possible wrongdoing, is often labeled as "having trust issues, being insecure", etc. I'm curious: why slam one person, yet laud another? Location: ATL with a side of Chicago. And when you bust him, bust him good. I found that link the other day when I was researching how many fake profiles were out there, out of curiousity. I'm not sure why one would be slammed and not the other, if the person has reasonable reasons I'm getting tired, my vocabulary is limited Some hire private detectives, some do it themselves. Now, if the person truly has "trust issues" then, yeah, they deserve to be slammed. My ex-husband used to routinely log into my email account, and created a fake persona and signed up and tried to befriend me on a forum, and found nada.
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This was during our divorce. He thought he could get past me with a proxy, but I sent him a "welcome" email from the forum with an embedded image created just for him, that linked directly back to my site. So when he opened the email, his IP - the house I used to live in - showed up on my stats. It seemed a little too familiar, and I was suspecting my ex was going through my emails, when married, and he admitted he did. He didn't stop, even after admitting it.
My email account shows all failed log-ins, and what IP was used. He was there, trying to log in from work, from home Didn't find a thing on me. Because there was nothing to find. Last edited by Neemy; at PM.. Location: New Zealand and Australia.
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Oh boy this thread should get good, I'll make the popcorn. The common goal there is to uncover the truth, the reasons to know if your child is being abused are straightforward and obvious If you have good reason to suspect infidelity, do really need to come face to face with the evidence before you move on? I don't know Maybe some people need the confirmation of knowing their suspicions are on target before they can.
Originally Posted by virgode. Originally Posted by Creativeguy I say yes. The reason I say that is because ending a relationship can be a huge decision -- especially if it's a relationship that's gone on for years, and graduated to marriage, possibly with kids, joint finances, etc. In my opinion, I think it's best to be absolutely sure with proof there's something going on, before choosing to end it. But, that's just my.
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Some people are insecure and paranoid, or projecting. In this case, I would expect the suspect to be furious as they probably did nothing to inspire such behavior. I see nothing wrong with it when there is a valid concern. Sometimes you do have to go looking if you suspect something. I did. When I confronted my husband with what I found another woman he ignored that and focued on my lack of trust and the fact that I was snooping on him. He thought it was just horrible and told me he couldn't be in a relationship with someone who would do that to him. You can't reason with someone who has been caught red handed.
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Location: New Zealand and Australia 7, posts, read 13,, times Reputation: Quote: Originally Posted by virgode The common goal there is to uncover the truth, the reasons to know if your child is being abused are straightforward and obvious Quote: Originally Posted by Creativeguy Now, I'm pretty sure that no-one in their right mind, would slam a mother for going behind her nanny's back and placing hidden cameras in her home when she suspects harm to her child. Location: southern california 61, posts, read 85,, times Reputation: Quote: Originally Posted by Creativeguy I say yes.
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